Mom's Guide

Why are teens afraid to talk to their Moms about vaginal health?

Many teenagers feel reluctant to bring up concerns they have about their bodies because they don't want their parents to assume that they're sexually active. The truth is that there are many reasons that young women, virgins or not, experience vaginal itching. So if your daughter approaches you to say that she's feeling itchy or experiencing discharge or a new odor, don't jump to the conclusion that she's sexually active. Many of the symptoms that seem scary to your daughter may just be the normal changes that come with growing up. However, it's also possible that she's experiencing the symptoms of a yeast infection, often a result of taking antibiotics for another condition; bacterial vaginosis (BV), the most common vaginal infection in the U.S., or even a sexually transmitted infection like trichomoniasis.

As a parent, you need to help her figure out what's going on. You also need to encourage an open dialogue, so ask her general questions that will help her open up about what’s happening. A question like, "Has anything changed in your life recently that might be affecting your body?" And whether the end result of your conversation is a doctor's visit or a trip to the drugstore for Vagisil® Deodorant Powder (or both), make sure to let your daughter know that you're glad she feels comfortable talking about these delicate topics with you. That way you're leaving the door open for more conversations.